Planning Your Casual Sex Encounter – How To Impress Your Date

So, now that we have gotten you to the point where not only are you able to get the girl to respond, but you are ready to move it forward to ask for the first date, you are probably feeling a bit more confident. You should. 99% of the other guys will never get to the point that you are right now. That has got to give you a notch in your belt. Don’t get too cocky however, there are still some major hurdles to overcome if you want things to go how you want them to. If you want to ensure that the night ends with more than a kiss on the cheek, you have to keep playing the game. It isn’t as if you were supposed to pretend you were someone else just for the profile and first email. On the first date is the most important time for you to stay in character.

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How to impress her

The person that she thinks that she is meeting is the guy she has fantasized about all of her life. If you let the cat out of the bag by being yourself you are most assuredly not going to end getting what you want, laid. The thing that you have to keep in mind is that you are no longer just “Joe”. In order to impress her you must be the Joe that she has dreamed about her entire life. You are the Joe that is going to sweep her off of her feet, make her sweat and most of all, make her want to rip her clothes off for. If you aren’t ready for it, you can rest assured that she won’t be either.

Choosing the right place for your first date

It’s going to set the tone for the entire evening, from beginning to the very end. If you want it to end well you have to plan all aspects of the night from where you are going to take her, to where you are going to shag her. If you think that maybe you won’t, then guess what, you won’t. You have to have a positive attitude and believe that there is no way that you are escaping this first date without accomplishing your mission.

The place that you choose to meet should be somewhere out of the way. You don’t want to bump into friends and have them join you. That will only prolong the night and steal her attention away from what you are there for. You want to find a place that is off the beaten path, but that is still crowded. If you choose somewhere out in the middle of nowhere you are probably going to creep her out. The place should be trendy, but still comfortable enough so that you can be confident and not feel out of place.

Keep these things in mind at all times

Pick a lounge instead of asking her to dinner. If you ask her to just meet out at a lounge, neither of you are beholden to sticking it out if it isn’t what you want. Plan to meet her after dinner so that all you have to focus on is where the night is going to end, which will be with you having a booty call.

The most important thing to keep in mind is that if she is not drinking, neither should you. If you go out beforehand it is okay to have a drink or two, but don’t show up to the date drunk unless you intend to leave alone. No girl wants a sloppy guy to come meet her after a six pack of beer…or more.

Be prepare to make the final move

Whatever you do make sure that you have something called an “exit plan”. That is a plan to get her out of there and into your bed. Pick some place that is close to your place so that you are only a short distance away. If you don’t want to take her to your place, make it some place close to a hotel so that you can end up somewhere else. If you don’t have a plan you are not going to score. That just means that when the night is over and you are looking to each other to figure out a plan she has the potential to walk. If you already have something in mind, it gives her less of a reason to want to walk away from you and head home.